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Submitted by: Joshua Pompey
How many times have you been out with a girl only to fall short of ending the night with that kiss you ve been thinking about your entire date? If you are having this problem, you are far from alone. Often times we unintentionally fall into the friend zone by making rookie mistakes that many daters make. Avoid the following mistakes and you will find you may not be able to get your date out of your arms by the end of the night.
The top three rookie mistakes:
1. Not enough touching. Always find ways to touch your date throughout the night. Often times people go an entire date without ever putting their hands on the other person. If we fail to do this and then suddenly go in for a kiss at the end of the night, it will feel awkward and out of place. Don t fall into this trap.
We don’t want to start with overbearing touches. This will come off as creepy and intrusive. What you want to do is touch your date throughout the entire night by starting very small and slowly building up to larger, more personal and sexual touches. Start with just a handshake or kiss on the cheek when you meet. As you walk your date to your location, use small gestures such as a hand on the back, or a touch of the arm while talking. This will warm up your date to your touch. As the night progresses, your touches should begin to progress as well. If you steadily increase as the date goes on, by the end of the night your date will feel perfectly natural when you go in for that kiss.
2. Acting too nice. Acting too nice is the easiest way to wind up in the friend zone. Yes women want a nice guy. But they also want a challenge. A guy that is willing to bend over for every wish the female has is a huge turnoff. It marks you as a guy that is desperately seeking approval and can t find another girl. Make yourself a challenge and show a little edge. Tease your date and show her that you are not afraid to lose her. This will have your dates curiosity peaked and out of the friend zone in no time.
3. Forgetting to flirt. This may sound obvious but daters often forget to flirt with their dates. You need to not only be interesting, but be viewed in a sexual way as well. This must be achieved through flirting. Tease your date, touch your date, make sexually suggestive jokes, and use body language (eyes, smile) to flirt. When using humor, cocky funny is the way to go. Mark yourself as a sexual being that is used to flirting with beautiful women on a daily basis.
Follow these three tips and you will surely find yourself avoiding the friend zone, and receiving that coveted first kiss in no time.
About the Author: Joshua Pompey is an online dating expert, consult and enthusiast, as well as author of The REAL Online Game for the REAL Online Dater. Visit
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